NYC dating coach

Social Motion - New York Dating Coach for Men

About us

New York Dating Coach has combined coaching experience of 30 years. All of our coaching is done face to face and one-on-one.

Our Location

36 West, 20th Street
New York, NY 10011

What is real world coaching?

Real World Coaching is a method of coaching where you will work exclusively with an expert coach 1-on-1 to effectively approach various women you are attracted to, in real world environments. You will experience dramatic change in your ability to meet and date women whom you want. No seminars or classrooms, only real actions and real results.

You will be in the midst of the action. Coffee shops, parks, and the night life. You will be observing and working with various coaches and meeting women . This isn't a seminar where you sit in a room hoping that you will learn something by scribbling down notes. You will be working with your New York Dating Coach and learning how to approach and talk to women by actually approaching and talking to women. Improve your meeting and dating life beyond what you've thought was possible.

Certified by DatingCoach.Org, our way of coaching is well developed and professionally polished. It is a truly unique way that has proven dramatic results in changing our past and current clients dating life.

Our coaches are experts in showing how you can start meeting and dating women whom you may consider unapproachable or out of your league. You will learn how to approach, what to say, how to develop amazing social skills, build real confidence, and know what the right steps of what to do when you are with a woman, after you get a number. Never again should you ever settle for less than what you want in meeting and dating. The true masters will teach you the how's of meeting and dating women and with your coach as your wingman, you will discover new found confidence.

Not sure what to wear when going out? Not sure what colors match you? How about what looks good on you? And what about your style? All these questions and more, will be answered as you are w orking with our very own image consultant, so you will look better than ever with expert assistance.

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Meet our Team

Art Malov is our primary daytime coach. After years spent in the field of meeting and dating he is our go-to guy. Want to learn how to meet women, on a subway, in a book store, or just standing in line? Art will show you how. His book, "Park Bench Dating," was released in January 2007. He has taught seminars throughout 2007 for Learning Annex, on meeting and dating in the daytime.

Michael Vans is our advanced night time dating coach who will demonstrate ways to meet women in bars and clubs that you have never seen or done before. But after you've seen Michael in action, you'll hardly be able to wait until you can try out his techniques for yourself.

David Dupre is our day and night time coach. Well versed in the particular challenges of both day and night time social dynamics. He is a dynamite coach to observe and work with.

Ron Larson is our image consultant. Former contestant judge on Miss America and Star Search. He has done photography for GQ and Style magazine and he will give you a full personalized image makeover the GQ style. Put yourself in Ron's capable hands, and you will be entirely amazed with the results.

Julie F, Christan M and Selia N are our wing women. They will get you into the conversation and help you navigate the meeting and dating scene with a female charm.

Newest addition to New York Dating Coach team: one of our past students has risen to a level of instructor.

Seth May - once one of our past students, he now has risen to the level of instructor and is currently our new online dating coach. He is a true experienced pro, after increasing his skill in meeting and dating women to amazing levels with Social Motion, and then went off for a while for some soul searching. He is now guiding our clients to online dating mastery. (You can read his testimonial from a while back below, in our testimonial section.)

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Testimonials

I highly recommend New York Dating Coach program, which I have just completed (in the Spring of 2008). Art has put together a comprehensive program, addressing meeting and interacting with women in a variety of settings, including day-time (e.g., parks), night-time (bars and clubs), on-line, and dates (including a practice date). Art’s staff is skilled and personable, and they teach a wide variety of different approaches.

The best part about the program is that it avoids pat canned routines, opening lines and incomprehensible "social interaction" flow charts.

I tend to be an over-achiever. In dealing with women, this aspect of my personality produced negative results -- I worried too much about the impression I made on women. During the Advanced Boot Camp course, however, I made a real breakthrough. I felt what it was like to be "in the zone," to feel that I was the prize, to be so playful with women that I could feel a strong current of positive energy connecting me to them.

At present I have half a dozen attractive prospects I'm dating, several of whom I met during the coaching course. I know I have more progress to make, but I'm confident that New York Dating Coach has given me the keys to achieve my goals.

Michele S, New York, 27

Art is a gifted teacher and guide. He won't overwhelm you as a coach, but he will challenge you to get over the things that are holding you back. And he won't have you anything he won't demonstrate to you himself... I am 33, and I haven't had much luck with women since I was 26. After a bad relationship, I just kinda concentrated on my career thinking they would find me. I was wrong. I was also wrong about being a nice guy, being friendly with girls, wasting my time with women and ending up being their therapist while they went out and slept with A-holes.

After a short time working with Art for an hour or so a week, and doing the home work, I was making out with 2 girls (one who used to be "my friend"), getting compliments from women at work, getting eyed by women on the street. And I am not a great looking guy. I am short, and stocky... But he got me to a point where my confidence was thru the roof. Pretty soon, I was having girls tell me I was too Confident for them... But they still were putting it out there for me. And then Imeet a blonde haired/blue eyed Co-ed at NYU...18 years old... It's scary to work on your problems and you HAVE to be willing to work. THERE IS NO MAGIC TRICK HERE...

But you will see results fast. You will platue, then you will see results again... That's how it happened with me. And you will feel more secure at job interviews, in new situations, and kiss any anxiety goodbye. Stop talking to your mom, your aunt, you female friends, your therapist and give New York Dating Coach a call. It's worth it.

Seth M, New Jersey, 33

Before I work with New York Dating Coach I had only been out on a couple of dates. I felt that I lacked the proper social skills and had almost resigned myself to the fact that I'll never get to date any attractive girl, let alone find any suitable girlfriend. Needless to say then that I was quite skeptical when I first met Art and his coaches, but I was so frustrated I thought that I've nothing to lose seeing what this guys can do for me.

I was pleasantly surprised. Rather than teaching me some pick-up lines and a few techniques, New York Dating Coach focused on my inner self, on how I see myself around women. It made me lose the FEAR of dealing with attractive women and find the comfort to bring out to women my own personality and attractiveness. I've since made great strides, got rid of most of my approach anxieties, and have had a blast meeting and dating cool and hot girls.

Jake M, San Diego, 33

When we first met, I listened to how you presented your work, and immediately recognized the integrity with your natural daytime approach to women versus some other "pickup artists" that I had listened to. New York Dating coach style wasn’t about manipulation leading to one night stands but rather it was about building genuine rapport. After completing intensive Complete Make Over ten-week program, my level of confidence in approaching women has increased dramatically, and now includes almost any venue rather than just parties or other environments within my former comfort zone.

Thank you for everything!

Philip D, New York, 41